"You're not fat, you're just... wide."
A "good" friend told me this once. I was 21.
A few of my friends have had the honest to goodness guts to post about this recently, and since it's been weighing on my mind, I thought I'd throw my two cents in, too.
Truthfully, I never thought I struggled with weight issues. I just... weighed what I weighed. I have a c…

